The Enliven Project Blog

Four Leadership Lessons for Tough Times

All organizations go through tough times now and then. Budgets fall short. Leaders leave, sometimes abruptly. A new project or initiative is a flop. These are all normal aspects of working reality and leadership.
When faced with a tough time, it’s easy to go to your bad place, whatever that place is. Maybe you are […]

By |September 8th, 2015|Nonprofit Management|Comments Off on Four Leadership Lessons for Tough Times

The Things I Learned from Mark Edwards

It’s become a bit of a ritual to write about boss’ and colleagues when we part ways. It’s a helpful way to reflect on what you learn from others, and to honor the relationship you had during that professional chapter of your life.

Almost a year ago, Mark Edwards transitioned out of his role at Opportunity […]

By |August 13th, 2015|Enlivening|Comments Off on The Things I Learned from Mark Edwards

Missing the point in the abortion-rights/pro-life debate

With all the debate and vitriol (on both sides) about the Center for Medical Progress and Planned Parenthood, it occurs to me that we’re missing a chance for action amidst all the fighting.

 

Abortion is a hot button issue. There’s no doubt about it. There are people who believe that life begins at conception and […]

By |August 6th, 2015|Enlivening|Comments Off on Missing the point in the abortion-rights/pro-life debate

5 Ways Bill Cosby Looks Like a Typical Rapist

It’s unclear to me why so many people are still shocked and saddened by Bill Cosby’s admissions of sexual abuse and assault. And while he certainly deserves a chance for healing and redemption (after paying for his crimes), it’s hard to believe that anyone would be “on his side” anymore.

However, the predominant narrative about […]

By |July 20th, 2015|Sexual Violence|1 Comment

A Game of Thrones Rape Scene Discussion Guide

An acquaintance recently reached out to me about the much-talked about rape scene on Game of Thrones. As a fan of the show, she had been following the media and blogger reaction to the scene, and was bothered by the fact that she didn’t find it all that disturbing. As a woman informed about […]

By |June 15th, 2015|Sexual Violence|Comments Off on A Game of Thrones Rape Scene Discussion Guide

5 Signs You Were Born to Raise Funds

“You’re a FUNDRAISER?”

 

“Gosh, what a hard job!”

 

“I HATE asking for money.”

 

These are just a few of the common reactions I get when I tell people that my job involves fundraising. To be clear, my most recent role at Opportunity Nation was focused on developing large-scale strategic partnerships that often involve both cash and […]

By |June 9th, 2015|Nonprofit Management|Comments Off on 5 Signs You Were Born to Raise Funds

No right way to be a mom

I am a mother. There is no denying it. There are two little humans who belong to me. I am fierce and protective. I teach my children to be competitive. I like to laugh about the insanity of it all. I’m snarky. I say things like, “Man, those last 9 months of pregnancy are […]

By |June 1st, 2015|Motherhood|Comments Off on No right way to be a mom

A Different Kind of Death

While dangerous to compare different types of tragedy, sometimes our response to one kind of trauma can inform our response to another. Last week, a graduate student at my alma mater – Brown University – committed suicide by jumping to his death from the 12th floor of the Sciences Library, a building near a […]

By |April 8th, 2015|Sexual Violence|Comments Off on A Different Kind of Death

Not my glory days.

I don’t know about you, but Glory Days doesn’t really apply to my experience of high school. I spent much of high school wanting to die or run away. I didn’t like myself at all. Most days, I despised myself. I cared so much about what other people thought about me. I had multiple […]

By |April 6th, 2015|Enlivening|Comments Off on Not my glory days.

The Truth About False Accusation Revisited

With recent attention on UVA and the Rolling Stone story, there has been a new wave of discussion about The Truth About False Accusation graphic on social media and even on the Washington Post that has compelled me write about this topic again, two years later. While I appreciate the prerogative of any journalist, […]

By |December 10th, 2014|Sexual Violence|6 Comments